Lessons Learned from Publishing – New Article on 2025 Solutions Site

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I’d like to thank 2025 Solutions, LLC for publishing my article, “The Path to Publishing: 7 Lessons Learned.” In it I share some valuable tips that I think will be helpful to writers with dreams of publishing their works.

Publishing my first book was by no means an easy feat. But what fun would it be if it was easy? Challenges and all, I’m happy that my journey led me here. And I’m thankful for the support I’ve had along the way. There’s great hope for the future and all it has in store!

No matter what your dreams are, if it’s what you truly want–go after it. Don’t let anything hold you back. It’s your time. Make it happen!

I Was Too Blind To See – Latest on MUSED

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Ever been in a situation, be it a relationship, friendship, or job, that was no good for you?  Everyone other than you knew you could do better and encouraged you to move on.  But for reasons that were oblivious to you at the time, you remained.  I’ve had my fair share of experiences such as these.  In my latest article for MUSED, “I Was Too Blind To See,” I talk about a past relationship that had run its course.  I ignored all the signs.  Yet, I stayed… And paid dearly for it.  But as I say in the article, “I’m grateful because that experience was crucial to bringing me forward.”  To learn more, read the article on MUSED.

Major thanks and props to Drew-Shane Daniels, Neo Huxtable and the MUSED family for featuring the article!

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Still NO Answers in the Marco McMillian Case – Latest on MUSED

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It’s been five months since Marco McMillian’s death and so many questions remain unanswered.  McMillian, 34, was a black, gay rising politician in Clarksdale, MS whose body was found beaten, burned, and unclothed on a Mississippi River levee on February 27.  Race, political corruption, and a hate crime motivated by sexual orientation have all fed into the speculation surrounding McMillian’s death.  Lawrence Reed, 22, confessed to the murder and is currently in police custody at the Coahoma County jail.  McMillian’s family, their community, and the NBJC (to name a few) have all called for a federal investigation into McMillian’s death.  For more information, read the article on MUSED.

MUSED Magazine Online is a pioneering “digital destination for lifestyle, entertainment & culture for modern black gay men.  MUSED serves as a collective of experiences and issues we care about” (see About MUSED).  Its mission is to raise the level of consciousness for our community and provide reliable, relevant, interactive, and engaging content for its readers.  MUSED is the only weekly online magazine for black gay men.


Major thanks and props to Drew-Shane Daniels and the MUSED family for featuring the article! 


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John Legend Developing HBO Series ‘Down Lo’ Following Closeted Gay Rapper – Latest on MUSED

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In a highly competitive bid, HBO recently purchased Down Lo, a forthcoming series produced by singer, songwriter, and producer John Legend (Get Lifted Film Co.) and producer, director, and writer Tony Krantz (Flame Ventures).  Set in South Beach Miami, the series will follow models, musicians, and athletes in the intermingled worlds of fashion, music, and sports.  Apparently, one of the characters will be a closeted gay rapper trying to make it in hip-hop.  To learn more, check out “John Legend Developing HBO Series ‘Down Lo’ Following Closeted Gay Rapper” on MUSED.

MUSED Magazine Online is a pioneering “digital destination for lifestyle, entertainment & culture for modern black gay men.  MUSED serves as a collective of experiences and issues we care about” (see About MUSED).  Its mission is to raise the level of consciousness for our community and provide reliable, relevant, interactive, and engaging content for its readers.  MUSED is the only weekly online magazine for black gay men.


Major thanks and props to Drew-Shane Daniels and the MUSED family for featuring the article! 


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Peace, Love, and Many Blessings!

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Does The GOP Really Want Your Vote? – Latest on MUSED

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A 100-page “autopsy” report by the Republican National Committee (RNC) confirmed that the GOP has an outreach problem.  Judging from the audience at the 2012 Republican National Convention, it was quite clear the GOP has been unable to connect with the youth and minorities for some time.  Looks like this is soon going to change.  Raffi Williams, son of journalist and Fox News political analyst Juan Williams, has been tapped as the Deputy Press Secretary of the RNC.  He will work to create initiatives to outreach to the youth and African Americans.  To learn more, read “Does the GOP Really Want Your Vote?” on MUSED.
 
MUSED Magazine Online is a pioneering “digital destination for lifestyle, entertainment & culture for modern black gay men.  MUSED serves as a collective of experiences and issues we care about” (see About MUSED).  Its mission is to raise the level of consciousness for our community and provide reliable, relevant, interactive, and engaging content for its readers.  MUSED is the only weekly online magazine for black gay men.


Major thanks and props to Drew-Shane Daniels and the MUSED family for featuring the article! 


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Peace, Love, and Many Blessings!

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Latest on MUSED – Danish Study Finds Same-Sex Marriage Decreases Mortality Rate For Men

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A Danish study recently published in the International Journal of Epidemiology provided some intriguing data about the health benefits of gay marriage.  Conducted by the Statens Serum Institute in Copenhagen and the Center for Sexology Research of Aalborg University, the study “reports the mortality rate for men in same-sex married couples has dropped significantly since the 1990s.  In contrast, researchers noticed an increase in mortality for women in same-sex couples in recent years” (MUSED).  The study also trumped the notion that married couples tend to have lower mortality rates when compared to individuals who are unmarried or divorced.  For more, read “Study Finds Same-Sex Marriage Decreases Mortality Rate For Men” on MUSED.

MUSED Magazine Online is a pioneering “digital destination for lifestyle, entertainment & culture for modern black gay men.  MUSED serves as a collective of experiences and issues we care about” (see About MUSED).  Its mission is to raise the level of consciousness for our community and provide reliable, relevant, interactive, and engaging content for its readers.  MUSED is the only weekly online magazine for black gay men.


Major thanks and props to Drew-Shane Daniels and the MUSED family for featuring the article! 


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Ain’t Nobody’s Business: Coming Out On Our Own Time – Latest on MUSED

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We live in a society obsessed with sexuality.  Beliefs, opinions, and perspectives aside, people spend a lot of time speculating about others’ relationships, sex lives, and sexual orientation (as if it really matters).  We’ve also witnessed a plethora of celebrities who’ve been forced out of the closet in the last decade or soHell, we may know people personally who’ve been outed.  Coming out is deeply personal though.  No one should be robbed of their chance to do it in their own time, when they’re ready.  Furthermore, if someone chooses not to be open about their sexual orientation we should not assume they’re ashamed of themselves (or their sexuality).  For more, see my commentary “Ain’t Nobody’s Business: Coming Out On Our Own Time” on MUSED.

MUSED Magazine Online is a pioneering “digital destination for lifestyle, entertainment & culture for modern black gay men.  MUSED serves as a collective of experiences and issues we care about” (see About MUSED).  Its mission is to raise the level of consciousness for our community and provide reliable, relevant, interactive, and engaging content for its readers.  MUSED is the only weekly online magazine for black gay men.


Major thanks and props to Drew-Shane Daniels and the MUSED family for featuring the article! 


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Dr. Ben Carson is a highly lauded neurosurgeon, educator, speaker, and best-selling author.  After  making several appearances on Fox News and giving speeches at the National Prayer Breakfast and the Conservative Political Action Conference (CPAC), he’s become somewhat of a political wunderkind lately.  Carson recently caught some heat for comments he made last week on Fox News’ Hannity about gay marriage.  He said, “Marriage is between a man and a woman. No group, be they gays, be they NAMBLA, be they people who believe in bestiality, it doesn’t matter what they are. They don’t get to change the definition. So, it’s not something against gays. It’s against anybody who wants to come along and change the fundamental definitions of pillars of society. It has significant ramifications” (Media Matters).  He later apologized and said his comments were “insensitive” and misunderstood.  He went on to say the “attacks” by “racist” white liberals against him “have been so vicious” (The Hill).  To learn more, read “Where Dr. Ben Carson Linking Gay Marriage To Bestiality Went Wrong” on MUSED.


MUSED Magazine Online is a pioneering “digital destination for lifestyle, entertainment & culture for modern black gay men.  MUSED serves as a collective of experiences and issues we care about” (see About MUSED).  Its mission is to raise the level of consciousness for our community and provide reliable, relevant, interactive, and engaging content for its readers.  MUSED is the only weekly online magazine for black gay men.


Major thanks and props to Drew-Shane Daniels and the MUSED family for featuring the article! 


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Welcomed Return of The DL Chronicles Series – Latest on MUSED

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I was so happy when I discovered that The DL Chronicles was returning this year.  This trailblazing series turned the whole DL (Down Low) phenomenon on its head by challenging the portrayals of men of color “who by consequence and by choice, live sexually duplicitous and secret lifestyles” (The DL Chronicles site).  I give its creators Deondray Gossett and Quincy LeNear (2 Cents Productions) major kudos for their creativity, fearlessness, and commitment to artfully telling stories that need to be told.  Read my article, “Welcomed Return Of The Critically Acclaimed ‘The DL Chronicles’ Series (VIDEO)” on MUSED.

MUSED Magazine Online is a pioneering “digital destination for lifestyle, entertainment & culture for modern black gay men.  MUSED serves as a collective of experiences and issues we care about” (see About MUSED).  Its mission is to raise the level of consciousness for our community and provide reliable, relevant, interactive, and engaging content for its readers.  MUSED is the only weekly online magazine for black gay men.


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Truth. Be. Told. is a documentary series which “seeks to reclaim the birthright of queer black  visionaries within our families and communities by providing a platform for out, Black LGBTQI-SGL-TS people to tell their personal stories of challenge, radical self-inquiry, transformation, and triumph.”  Created by filmmaker, writer, photographer, activist, and communications professional Katina Parker, Truth. Be. Told. will highlight the multifaceted experiences of several visionaries and innovators and provide a comprehensive representation of Black Queer identity.  To find out more, read “‘Truth. Be. Told.,’ Refreshing New Docu-series Highlights Black Queer Visionaries” on MUSED. 

MUSED Magazine Online is a pioneering “digital destination for lifestyle, entertainment & culture for modern black gay men.  MUSED serves as a collective of experiences and issues we care about” (see About MUSED).  Its mission is to raise the level of consciousness for our community and provide reliable, relevant, interactive, and engaging content for its readers.  MUSED is the only weekly online magazine for black gay men.


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